Sociopaths do not change

thermotron Sociopaths do not change

Perhaps you've come to the conclusion that you are dealing with a sociopath. You've read the key symptoms and they describe this person perfectly. You've read the stories, and you recognize the behaviors. So what do you do now?

Accept the reality that a sociopath will never change.



You cannot cure him with your understanding. You cannot change yourself and expect him to be satisfied. You cannot make him understand how you feel and how much he hurts you. He really doesn't care. (All of this applies to female sociopaths as well as male.)

To a sociopath, you are just "supply." You are a source of money, sex, housing, business connections, or whatever else he is taking from you. Even though he says, "I love you," and "I'll never do it again," the words mean nothing. His sole objective is to keep the supply coming.

So what do you do? Cut your losses and get out.

If you're lucky, you're not married to him, you don't have children with him, and you don't work with him.

You just walk away and never see the creep again.

But many situations are more complicated than that. If you have to deal with divorce or child custody, expect it to be nasty.

It's not that the sociopath actually cares about you or the kids.

It's just that he wants to win, and make your life miserable in the process.

this info provides more information on what to do if you're involved with a sociopath on the other pages of this section